Tuesday, 27 October 2015
Sunday 17th October, 2015
Sunday 25th October, 2015
The last time I hosted any sort of party must have been at least five years ago. It’s not that I am anti-social. I am perfectly happy to go to other people’s parties, in fact I love parties. But I just get stressed over the prospect of people coming over to my house. I worry over everything, people not having a good time, people behaving inappropriately, people breaking things. And by the time I have gotten over all this stress it just really doesn’t seem worth it.
Long before we reached my birthday my mum started trying to persuade me to have a party. My friends think I’m crazy, as they can never get their parents to let them have a party as much as they try and I am the opposite with mine. I reached a decision that I wasn’t going to do anything, yet again, despite this being my 18th birthday.
Just a day before my birthday I agreed on the spur of the moment to let some friends stay for what started off as maybe five people going out and just sleeping at our place but ended up as eight or so people coming round before heading to Bury St Edmunds for my first legal visit to a pub and nightclub, all then heading back to Gazeley and staying for a big cooked breakfast in the morning. However despite my reservations I had such a great time, everyone enjoyed themselves and I reckon you could even call it a party! It just shows that you can’t know you don’t like something until you try it.
Monday, 19 October 2015
Sunday 11th October 2015
On Tuesday evening we had our first wine society meeting of the year. I am proud to have been elected one of four secretaries of the Rugby School Wine Society. We were at the venue an hour early in order to help set up rows and rows of glasses, jugs of water and plates of wafer biscuits. Then we were introduced to our guest speakers, James Naylor, the father of one of our secretaries and, Nicola Arcedeckne-Butler. James is director of Private Cellar, a successful wine merchant, and for whom Nicola is director of buying. These are big names within the wine industry and Nicola is one of only 340 Masters of Wine in the world. I must admit my first impressions of them were not the best. They made fun of the shape of the ‘goblet’ wine glasses we had painstakingly set out. I suppose they were making the point that to fully appreciate fine wine you need the right glass, but it set the evening off with a slightly sour taste in the mouth!
After that though we had a great evening drinking six different French wines, my favourite being the Pouilly Fume, Domaine Thibault, Andre Dezat 2014 which had a fruity taste with a smooth smokiness over the top of it. Surprisingly, and a good reminder that the things that cost the most aren’t necessarily the best, my least favourite was one of the more expensive wines, the Vosne Romanee Domaine Machard de Gramont 2008. This struck me as unusually pale and translucent in colour and, compared to the others, tasted rather bland at the outset and slightly boorish when the flavour eventually hit you. Wine is such an interesting subject though. Everyone can have their own views and your views can change. Just like with people come to think of it. Despite my initially impressions, when I was put out by their reaction to the glasses we had provided, both the speakers were very gracious and knowledgeable and we were privileged to have them come and talk to us.
Wednesday, 7 October 2015
Sunday 4th October, 2015
Racial conflict and stereo types have been the subject of the news for decades now. The recent case of Amed and the clock has now resurfaced, indicating that despite the uproar for racial targeting it was in fact not down to the boys skin colour or religion that he was apprehended but due to his obvious, suspicious behaviour which, turned out to be intentional.
This is a very controversial topic and one that I feel strongly against as even now racism is seen in day to day life with subtle racist jokes and references. I am strongly against racism and do whatever I can to stop it when the opportunity arises. However I do believe that too often people are wrongly blamed for racism particularly within the justice system. I believe that it is not that they are targeting races because of religion and skin colour but it is that they are attempting to make a situation as safe as possible and unfortunately, mistakes are made, granted more often than not the victim is not Caucasian but, in most cases I do not believe there is actual racist intent.